5 Touching Poems to Read at Your Dad’s Memorial Service

Cremation Society of Missouri • October 16, 2022

Reading poetry at a funeral is not as common as gospel readings, but it can be a helpful addition to any service. Here are some examples for your dad’s funeral.

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The beauty of reading poetry at a funeral after a cremation service in St. Louis, MO, is that poems tend to be concise. They are easily understood by most people in attendance regardless of age or education level. 



Whether you choose to read your favorite poem or share one written by your father, these five selections should give you some inspiration: 


You Were There – Unknown 

You were there when we took our first steps, 

And went unsteadily across the floor. 

You pushed and prodded: encouraged and guided, 

Until our steps took us out the door 

You worry now “Are they ok?” 

Is there more you could have done? 

As we walk the paths of our unknown 

You wonder “Where have my children gone?” 

Where we are is where you have led us, 

With your special love you showed us a way, 

To believe in ourselves and the decisions we make. 

Taking on the challenge of life day-to-day. 

And where we go you can be sure, 

In spirit you shall never be alone. 

For where you are is what matters most to us, 

Because to us that will always be home. 


He is Gone – David Harkins 

You can shed tears that he is gone, 

or you can smile because he has lived. 

You can close your eyes and pray that he’ll come back, 

or you can open your eyes and see all he’s left. 

Your heart can be empty because you can’t see him, 

or you can be full of the love you shared. 

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, 

or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday. 

You can remember him only that he is gone, 

or you can cherish his memory and let it live on. 

You can cry and close your mind, 

be empty and turn your back. 

Or you can do what he’d want: 

smile, open your eyes, love and go on. 


My Father, My Father – Dakota Ellerton 

My father, my father,

I love he, 

my father, my father, 

made me see, 

how beautiful this world really can be. 

My father, my father, 

said to me, 

my daughter my daughter, 

come see me, 

I wont be around forever, and I have things that must be. 

My father, my father, 

don’t die on me. 


Father – Unknown 

Family man, first and foremost 

A troublemaker, a teacher, a friend 

The one person I could always take my troubles to 

Heartbreaks hurt less when you were by my side 

Even in my darkest hours, you were always there for me 

Rest in peace and know I will miss you every day 


Our Loving Father – Unknown 

God took the strength of a mountain & the majesty of a tree. 

The warmth of a summer sun, the calm of a quiet sea. 

The generous soul of nature & the comforting arm of night. 

The wisdom of the ages and the power of the eagle’s flight, 

The joy of a morning in spring & the faith of a mustard seed, 

The patience of eternity & the depth of a family need, 

Then God combined these qualities, 

When there was nothing more to add, 

He knew His masterpiece was complete,

And so, He called it – ‘dad!’


Feeling inspired? We can help you organize the memorial service so you can focus on writing your poem for your beloved father. You can also contact us for your cremation services in St. Louis, MO. Our staff is available 24 hours a day to assist you. Call us now to get started.


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